It gets everyone going. Guys want to watch it, girls want to do it. It's apparently the most popular thing to do on earth right now.

For some of us though, it just is the way things are and I want to tell you my stories. For no other reason than to put something out there that isn't Hollywood contrived, or imagined by a man. Just the simple love life of a Gold Star lesbian. In case you've managed to avoid the L word, that just means I've never slept with a man. Technically a virgin.

At this point I beg you not to send me your messages explaining that I just need some "seriously good deep dicking". I do not doubt your abilities. I just like girls, you understand.

If you do decide to come on this journey with me, you'll know more about me than anyone in my life does.

Ok, so let's help you get started and get me a label to put on your box. I'm a lesbian; I look like one in fact. Short hair, masculine dress sense, nerdy and a tendency towards ties. You've seen many of me...we're everywhere these days...mainstream fare...

I'm actually nothing special to look at, as is often the case, but I have my luck.

Other than that, our journey will make you think many things of me. I have been many things. Many I'm not proud of, some I am.

All of these things have no bearing on who I sleep with. Contrary to some opinions I don't believe that your behaviour is dictated by your sexuality. People are people and whether you sleep with the same sex or the opposite or something else, you're still like the rest of us.

I have plenty of theories on how being a big gay affects some of my choices and no doubt I will be throwing these in from time to time, but mostly I just want to remember. I want to chronicle the moments in my life and I want to share them.

So if your taste in lesbianism is more intellectual than 2 Swedish looking au pairs trying to kiss each other by waggling their tongues, I hope you'll join me on my casanovian type memoirs.

Until we begin...

Gold*Star